Finding Herself at Camp: Pahtli’s Journey Toward Peace by JC Montenegro, PhD

As many of you may know, during the summer, I help Camp Savio, where we have over 600 children. On weekends, I catch up on my emails and other tasks that I need to complete. Today, I had the opportunity to speak with this amazing young person, and her story moved me. I have decided to share with you what I learned today about the power of community. I hope you enjoy the reading!

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This summer, something quiet but powerful happened through our programs. A young leader, Pahtli, stepped into a space looking for a break and walked out with a renewed understanding of herself and her place in the world.

The Salesian Family Youth Center brought a group of young leaders to participate in the Salesian Youth Leadership Conference (SYLC), a weeklong experience in Aptos, California. Pahtli was among them. She’s always felt deeply connected to social justice and never hesitates to step up when someone needs help. But even with all her outward strength, she came carrying weight that no one could see. “I was always giving,” she said. “But I didn’t feel seen. I was running on empty.”

What she found at SYLC wasn’t just a break; it was a moment of reconnecting. Surrounded by peers, mentors, and a setting that encouraged honest reflection, Pahtli allowed herself to confront what she’d been holding back. “I realized I don’t need anyone else to be happy,” she shared. “I have a community that loves me. I’m supported.”

Her transformation wasn’t loud; it came in moments of clarity. In quiet reflection. In community prayer. She stopped trying to prove herself and started simply being herself.

After the conference, she joined our summer program, Camp Salesian, where she serves as a camp counselor for third graders. She has found absolute joy in helping and accompanying her campers, offering the same kind of presence she once sought for herself.

What’s been most powerful to witness is how grounded she now feels. Knowing she’s not alone and that there’s a community behind her has helped her reconnect with her strength.

Since then, Pahtli has continued to grow. She’s holding onto the lessons, the peace, and the sense of belonging. “I already have value,” she said. “Even if I’m still figuring things out.”

These are the stories that reflect what our mission is all about. When young people like Pahtli find a place where they are seen, heard, and supported, transformation happens.

To every donor, volunteer, and supporter of the Salesian Family Youth Center, thank you. Your support makes this kind of journey possible.